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1. For a person you loved deeply, would
you be willing to move to a distant
country knowing there would be little
chance of seeing your friends or family
again?
2. Do you believe in ghosts or evil
spirits?
Would you be willing to spend a
night alone in a remote house that is
supposedly haunted?
3. If you could spend one year in
perfect
happiness but afterward would
remember nothing of the experience,
would you do so? If not, why not?
4. If you were to die this evening with
no
opportunity to communicate with
anyone,
what would you most regret not
having told someone? Why haven't
you told them yet?
5. If a new medicine were developed
that
would cure arthritis but cause a fatal
reaction in 1 percent of those who
took it, would you want it to be
released to the public?
6. You discover your wonderful one-
yearold
child is, because of a mix up at the
hospital, not yours. Would you want to
exchange the child to try to correct
the mistake?
7. Do you think that the world will be a
better or a worse place 100 years
from now?
8. Would you accept $1,000,000 to
leave
the country and never set foot in it
again?
9. Would you rather be a member of a
world championship sports team or be
the champion of an individual sport?
Which sport would you choose?
10. Which sex do you think has it easier
in
our culture? Have you ever wished
you were of the opposite sex?
11. You are given the power to kill
people
simply by thinking of their deaths and
twice repeating the word "good-bye."
People would die a natural death and
no one would suspect you. Are there
any situations in which you would use
this power?
12. If you were able to live to the age
of
90 and retain either the body or the
mind of a 30-year-old for the last 60
years of your life, which would you
want?
13. What would constitute a "perfect"
evening for you?
14. Would you rather be extremely
successful
professionally and have a tolerable
yet unexciting private life, or
have an extremely happy private life
and only a tolerable and uninspiring
professional life?
15. Whom do you admire most? In
what
way does that person inspire you?
16. If at birth you could select the
profession
your child would eventually pursue,
would you do so?
17. Would you be willing to become
extremely ugly physically if it meant
you would live for 1,000 years at any
physical age you chose?
18. If you could wake up tomorrow
having
gained any one ability or quality, what
would it be?
19. You have the chance to meet
someone
with whom you can have the most
satisfying love imaginable-the stuff of
dreams. Sadly, you know that in six
months the person will die. Knowing
the pain that would follow, would you
still want to meet the person and fall
in love? What if you knew your lover
would not die, but instead would
betray you?
20. If you knew of a way to use your
estate, following your death, to greatly
benefit humanity, would you do it
and leave only a minimal amount to
your family?
21. Do you prefer being around men or
women? Do your closest friends tend
to be men or women?
22. If you could use a voodoo doll to
hurt
anyone you chose, would you?
23. Are there people you envy enough
to
want to trade lives with them? Who
are they?
24. For an all-expense-paid, one-week
vacation anywhere in the world, would
you be willing to kill a beautiful
butterfly
by pulling off its wings? What
about stepping on a cockroach?
25. Would you be willing to murder an
innocent person if it would end hunger
in the world?
26. If a prophet you have a faith in
appeared to you in a series of vivid
and moving dreams and told you to
leave everything behind, travel alone
to the Red Sea and become a
fisherman,
what would you do? What if you
were told to sacrifice your child?
27. What is your most treasured
memory?
28. Have you ever hated anyone? If so,
why and for how long?
29. Would you rather be given $10,000
for
your own use or $100,000 to give
anonymously to strangers? What if
you could keep $1,000,000 or give
away $20,000,000?
30. If you knew there would be a
nuclear
war in one week, what would you do?
31. Would you accept twenty years of
extraordinary happiness and fulfillment
if it meant you would die at the
end of the period?
32. What is the greatest
accomplishment
of your life? Is there anything you
hope to do that is even better?
33. What was your most enjoyable
dream? Your worst nightmare?
34. Would you give up half of what you
now own for a pill that would
permanently
change you so that one hour of
sleep each day would fully refresh
you?
35. If you knew you could devote
yourself
to any single occupation-music, writing,
acting, business, politics, medicine,
etc.-and be among the best and
most successful in the world at it,
what would you choose?
36. What was your worst experience
with
drugs or alcohol?
37. If you went to a dinner party and
were
offered a dish you had never tried,
would you want to taste it even if it
sounded strange and not very
appealing?
38. Do your close friends tend to be
older
or younger than you?
39. If the person you were engaged to
marry had an accident and became a
paraplegic, would you go through with
the marriage or back out of it?
40. Your house, containing everything
you
own, catches fire; after saving your
loved ones and pets, you have time to
safely make a final dash to save any
one item. What would it be?
41. When were you last in a fight?
What
caused it and who won?
42. You are offered $1,000,000 for the
following
act: Before you are ten pistolsonly
one of which is loaded. You must
pick up one of the pistols, point it at
your forehead, and pull the trigger. If
you can walk away you do so a
millionaire.
Would you accept the risk?
43. Someone very close to you is in
pain,
paralyzed, and will die within a month.
He begs you to give him poison so
that he can die. Would you? What if it
were your father?"
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44. When did you last sing to yourself?
To
someone else?
45. You have the power to go any
distance
into the future and, after one year,
return to the present with any
knowledge
you have gained from your experience
but with no physical objects.
Would you make the journey if it
carried
a 20 percent risk of death?
46. Given the choice of anyone in the
world, whom would you want as your
dinner guest? As your close friend? As
your lover?
47. While parking late at night, you
slightly
scrape the side of a Porsche. You
are certain no one else is aware of
what happened. The damage is minor
and would not be covered by insurance.
Would you leave a note?
48. If you could choose the manner of
your death, what would it be?
49. Do you have any specific long-term
goals? What is one and how do you
plan on reaching it?
50. For what in your life do you feel
most
grateful?
51. How do you react when people sing
"Happy Birthday" to you in a
restaurant?
52. What is the worst psychological
torture
you can imagine suffering?
Anything causing even minor physical
injury should not be considered.
53. Would you like your spouse to be
both
smarter and more attractive than you?
54. If you found that a good friend had
AIDS, would you avoid him? What if
your brother or sister had it?
55. A good friend pulls off a well-
conceived
practical joke that plays on one
of your foibles and makes you look
ridiculous. How would you react?
56. By controlling medical research
funds,
you are in the position to guarantee
that a cure will be found in 15 years
for any disease you choose.
Unfortunately, no progress on any
others would be made during that
period. Would you target one disease?
57. Would you add one year to your life
if
it meant taking one year from the life
of someone in the world selected at
random? Would it matter if you were
told whose life you had shortened?
58. If you walked out of your house one
morning and saw a bird with a broken
wing huddled in some nearby bushes,
what would you do?
59. Assume there were a technological
breakthrough that would allow people
to travel as easily and cheaply
between continents as between nearby
cities. Unfortunately, there would
also be 100,000 deaths a year from
the device. Would you try to prevent
its use?
60. You and a person you love deeply
are
placed in separate rooms with a button
next to each of you. You know that
you will both be killed unless one of
you presses your button before 60
minutes pass; furthermore, the first to
press the button will save the other
person, but will immediately be killed.
What do you think you would do?
61. When you tell a story, do you often
exaggerate or embellish it? If so, why?
62. Do you feel that advice from older
people carries a special weight
because of their greater experience?
63. Without your kidney as a
transplant,
someone close to you will die within
one month. The odds that you will
survive
the operation are only 50 percent,
but should you survive you
would be certain of a normal life
expectancy. Would you consent to the
operation
64. When has your life dramatically
changed as the result of some
seemingly
random external influence? How
much do you feel in control of the
course of your life?
65. If a friend were almost always late,
would you resent it or simply allow for
it? Can you be counted on to be on
time?
66. When did you last yell at someone?
Why? Did you later regret it?
67. Would you be willing to have
horrible
nightmares every night for a year if
you would be rewarded with
extraordinary
wealth?
68. If you could have free, unlimited
service
for five years from an extremely
good cook, chauffeur, housekeeper,
masseuse, or personal secretary,
which would you choose?
69. Would you enjoy spending a month
of
solitude in a beautiful natural setting?
Food and shelter would be provided
but you would not see another person.
70. After a medical examination, your
doctor calls and gravely says you have
a rare lymphatic cancer and only a few
months to live. Five days later, she
informs you that the lab tests were
mislabeled; you are perfectly
healthy. Forced for a moment to look
death in the face, you have been
allowed to turn and go on. During
those difficult days you would certainly
have gained some insights about
yourself. Do you think they would be
worth the pain?
71. One hot summer afternoon, while
walking through a parking lot at a
large shopping center, you notice a
dog suffering badly from the heat
inside a locked car. What would you
do?
72. Do you feel ill at ease going alone
to
either dinner or a movie? What about
going on a vacation by yourself?
73. If you knew that in one year you
would die suddenly, would you change
anything about the way you are now
living?
74. For $20,000 would you go for three
months without washing, brushing
your teeth, or using deodorant?
Assume you could not explain your
reasons to anyone, and that there
would be no long-term effect on your
career.
75. Would you rather die peacefully
among friends at age 50, or painfully
and alone at age 80? Assume that
most of the last 30 years would be
good ones.
76. If you were to discover that your
closest
friend was a heroin dealer, what
would you do?
77. Is it easy for you to accept help
when
you need it? Will you ask for help?
78. If you were helping to raise money
for
a charity and someone agreed to
make a large contribution if you would
perform at the upcoming fund-raising
show, would you? If so, what would
you like to perform? Assume the show
would have an audience of about
1,000.
79. Would you have one of your fingers
surgically removed if it somehow
guaranteed immunity from all major
diseases?
80. Would you like to be famous? In
what
way?
81. How do you picture your funeral? Is
it
important for you to have people
mourn your death?
82. Which of the following restrictions
could you best tolerate? : leaving the
country permanently, or never leaving
the state in which you now live
83. You, your closest friend, and your
father are on vacation together, hiking
in a remote jungle. Your two
companions
stumble into a nest of poisonous
vipers and are bitten repeatedly. You
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know neither will live without an
immediate shot of anti-venom, yet
there is only a single dose of antivenom
and it is in your pocket. What
would you do?
84. If you could choose the sex and
physical
appearance of your soon-to-beborn
child, would you do it?"
85. Would you rather play a game with
someone more or less talented than
you? Would it matter who was
watching?
86. Is there something you've dreamed
of
doing for a long time? Why haven't
you done it?'
87. On a busy street you are
approached
apologetically by a well-dressed
stranger who asks for a dollar to catch
a bus and make a phone call. He says
he has lost his wallet. What would you
do? If approached in the same way by
a haggard-looking stranger claiming
to be hungry and unable to find a job,
what would you do?
88. If by sacrificing your life you could
contribute so much to the world that
you would be honored in all nations,
would you be willing to do so? If so,
would you make the same sacrifice
knowing that someone you thoroughly
disliked would receive the honor
while you went unrecognized?
89. What are your most compulsive
habits? Do you regularly struggle to
break these habits?
90. You know you will die of an
incurable
disease within a year. Would you allow
yourself to be frozen within the week
if you knew it would give you a modest
chance of being revived in 1,000
years and living a greatly extended
life?
91. You are driving late at night in a
safe
but deserted neighborhood when a
dog suddenly darts in front of your
car. Though you slam on the brakes,
you hit the animal. Would you stop to
see how injured the animal was? If
you did so and found that the dog was
dead but had a name tag, would you
contact the owner?
92. What do you most strive for in your
life: accomplishment, security, love,
power, excitement, knowledge, or
something else?
93. How close and warm is your family?
Do you feel your childhood was happier
than most other people's?
94. At a meal, your friends start
belittling
a common acquaintance. If you felt
their criticisms were unjustified, would
you defend the person?
95. You are invited to a party that will
be
attended by many fascinating people
you've never met. Would you want to
go if you had to go by yourself?
96. Since adolescence, in what three-
year
period do you feel you experienced
the most personal growth and
change?
97. If you were having difficulty on an
important test and could safely cheat
by looking at someone else's paper,
would you do so?"
98. If you were at a friend's house for a
dinner and you found a dead cockroach
in your salad, what would you
do?
99. If you could take a one-month trip
anywhere in the world and money
were not a consideration, where would
you go and what would you do?
100. Would you be willing to reduce
your
life expectancy by five years to
become extremely attractive?
101. Given the ability to project
yourself
into the past but not return, would
you do so? Where would you go and
what would you try to accomplish if
you knew you might change the
course of history?
102. Have you ever considered suicide?
What is so important to you that
without
it life would not be worth living?
103. If your friends and acquaintances
were willing to bluntly and honestly
tell you what they really thought of
you, would you want them to?
104. If this country were to suffer an
unprovoked nuclear attack and would
be totally obliterated in a matter of
minutes, would you favor unleashing
the nuclear arsenal upon the attackers?
105. Would you accept $10,000 to
shave
your head and continue your normal
activities sans hat or wig without
explaining the reason for your haircut?
106. Were you able to wake up
tomorrow in
the body of someone else, would you
do so? Whom would you pick?
107. If you were happily married, and
then
met someone you felt was certain to
always bring you deeply passionate,
intoxicating love, would you leave
your spouse? What if you had kids?
108. When you do something
ridiculous,
how much does it bother you to have
other people notice it and laugh at
you?
109. Who is the most important person
in
your life? What could you do to
improve the relationship? Will you
ever do it?
110. If you could change anything
about
the way you were raised, what would
it be?
111. You are at a lake with some
friends;
the sun is warm and the water is cold.
Going into the water would temporarily
chill you but you know that later
the warm sun would be even more
enjoyable and you would be glad you
had gone in. Would you take the
plunge?
112. Do you believe in any sort of God?
Where do you think you'll go after
death?
113. If 100 people your age were
chosen at
random, how many do you think you'd
find leading a more satisfying life than
yours?
114. Would it disturb you much if, upon
your death, your body were simply
thrown into the woods and left to rot?
Why?
115. Which would you prefer: a wild,
turbulent
life filled with joy, sorrow, passion,
and adventure, intoxicating successes
and stunning setbacks; or a
happy, secure, predictable life
surrounded
by friends and family without
such wide swings of fortune and
mood?
116. If you knew your child would be
severely retarded, would you decide
to have an abortion?
117. Do you find it so hard to say "no"
that
you regularly do favors you do not
want to do? If so, why?
118. Would you like to know the precise
date of your death?"
119. Would you accept a guaranteed,
lifetime
allowance of $50,000 per year
(adjusted annually for inflation) if
accepting it meant that you could
never again earn money from either
work or investments?"
120. Do you ever spit or pick your nose
in
public? What about cleaning your
teeth with a toothpick?
121. A close friend asks-and genuinely
wants- your opinion about something,
but your opinion is one that he is likely
to find quite painful. For example,
your friend is an artist and asks your
honest estimate of his chances of
being successful. You think he is an
atrocious artist who hasn't the slightest
chance of success. What would
you do?
122. When did you last cry in front of
another person? By yourself?
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123. If, by having a 2 inch by 2 inch
tattoo,
you could save five lives and prevent
a terrorist attack, would you do so? If
you were allowed to select the location
and design, where would you have it
and what would the design be?
124. Someone you love deeply is
brutally
murdered and you know the identity
of the murderer, who unfortunately is
acquitted of the crime. Would you
seek revenge?
125. Would you be willing to give up all
television
for the next five years if it
would induce someone to provide for
1,000 starving children in Indonesia?
126. While arguing with a close friend
on
the telephone, she gets angry and
hangs up. Assuming she is at fault and
makes no attempt to contact you, how
long would you wait to get in touch
with her?
127. What do you value most in a
relationship?
128. If you learned you would die in a
few
days, what regrets would you have?
Were you given five extra years of life,
could you avoid those same regrets
five years hence?
129. Do you judge others by higher or
lower standards than you use to judge
yourself?
130. Would you be willing to make a
substantial
sacrifice to have any of the
following: your picture on a postage
stamp, your statue in a park, a college
named after you, a Nobel prize, a
national holiday in your honor?
131. If you had to spend the next two
years
inside a small but fully provisioned
Antarctic shelter with one other person,
whom would you like to have with
you?
132. You notice a self-destructive
behavior
pattern in a friend who is clearly
unaware of it. Would you point it out?
133. If you had the choice of one
intimate
soul mate and no other close friends,
or of no such soul mate and many
friends and acquaintances, which
would you choose?
134. You become involved romantically
but
after six months realize you need to
end the relationship. If you were certain
the person would commit suicide
if you were to leave and were also
certain
you could not be happy with the
person, what would you do?
135. If there were a public execution on
television, would you watch it?
136. If someone offered you a large
amount of money for some information
about one of your company's
products, would you accept it?
Assume you know you won't be
discovered,"
137. Do you consider yourself well
organized?
How often do you have to look
for your keys?
138. If you could increase your I.Q. by
forty
points by having an ugly scar stretching
from your mouth to your eye,
would you do so?
139. Would you be willing to do
something
very unsatisfying (for example, clean
toilets) for five years if you were certain
that the experience would afterwards
bring you a deep sense of personal
fulfillment for the rest of your
life?
140. What things are too personal to
discuss
with others?
141. How many times during the day
do
you look at yourself in the mirror?
142. Walking along an empty street,
you
notice a wallet. It contains $5000 in
cash but no name or address. What
would you do?
143. Would you prefer to be blind or
deaf?
144. How many of your friendships
have
lasted more than ten years? Which of
your current friends do you feel will
still be important to you ten years
from now?
145. Before making a telephone call, do
you ever rehearse what you are going
to say?
146. You are leading 100 people whose
lives are in danger and you must
choose between two courses of action.
(One would save only 90 people; the
other would have a 50 percent chance
of saving everyone but were it to fail
everyone would die. Which would you
choose?
147. If you went to a movie with a
friend
and it was lousy, would you leave?
148. For $1,000,000 would you be
willing
to never again see or talk to your best
friend?
149. What do you like best about your
life?
Least?
150. Have you ever disliked someone
for
being luckier or more successful than
you?
151. When you are given a compliment
do
you usually acknowledge it or suggest
that you really do not deserve it?
152. What sorts of things would you do
if
you could be as outgoing and
uninhibited
as you wished? Do you usually
initiate friendships or wait to be
approached?
153. If you decided to do something
and
your friends strongly advised you not
to, could you do it anyway?
154. In a nice restaurant, after getting
the
check for an excellent meal, you
notice that you were not charged for
one of the items you ate. Would you
tell the waitress?
155. Do you establish routines in your
life?
For example, do you usually sleep in
the same place in your bed? Eat meals
at the same time? Regularly return to
the same vacation spot?
156. Can you be counted on to do what
you
say you'll do? What does it take for
you to trust someone?
157. Do you feel you have much impact
on
the lives of people you come in contact
with? Can you think of someone
who, over a short period of time,
significantly
influenced your life?
158. Would you rather be happy yet
slowwitted
and unimaginative or unhappy
yet bright and creative? For example,
would you rather live the life of a
brilliant
yet tortured artist such as
Vincent van Gogh, or that of a happy
but carefree soul who is a bit
simpleminded?
159. When you are with your friends,
do
your interactions include much
touching-
for example, hugging, kissing,
roughhousing, or rubbing backs?
Would you like to have more of this?
160. Given the ability to project
yourself
into the future but not return, would
you do so? If not, would you change
your mind if you could take someone
along? How far would you go?"
161. Of all the people close to you,
whose
death would you find most disturbing?
162. You have arranged an evening
with a
friend, but on the day preceding your
date a special opportunity arises to do
something much more exciting. How
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would you handle the situation?
163. What has been your biggest
disappointment
in life? Your biggest failure?
164. You are given $1-000,000 to
donate
anonymously to charity or to a
stranger. How would you dispose of it?
165. In conversations, do you tend to
listen
or talk more?
166. Do you frequently find yourself-
just to
be polite-saying things you don't
mean? For example, when you say
good-bye to someone who does not
interest you, do you act as though you
enjoyed their company?
167. Would you be willing to commit
perjury
for a close friend? For example,
might you testify that he was driving
carefully when he hit a pedestrian
even though he had been joking
around and not paying attention?
168. Relative to the population at large,
how do you rate your physical
attractiveness?
Your intelligence? Your personality?
169. Running too quickly on an icy
sidewalk
in front of a neighbor's house, you slip
and break your leg. Would you be likely
to sue the owner of the house if you
were confident you could win the suit
because of his negligence in shoveling
the snow?
170. If you could prevent either an
earthquake
in Peru that would kill 40,000
people, a crash at your local airport
that would kill 200 people, or an
automobile
accident that would kill an
acquaintance of yours, which would
you choose?
171. Would you be willing to eat a bowl
of
live crickets for $40,000?
172. If you came upon the scene of a
terrible
highway accident just after the
ambulances arrived, would you stop
to watch? Assume that your presence
would neither help nor hinder the
rescuers.
173. If you could script the basic plot
for
the dream you will have tonight, what
would the story be?
174. You are given a chance to return
to
any previous point in your life and
change a decision you made, but you
will lose everything that has happened
to you since then. Is there a time you
would return to? If so, would you like
to retain the memory of the life you
are giving up even though you could
never recapture it?
175. Would $50,000 be enough money
to
induce you to take a loyal, healthy pet
to the vet to be put to sleep?
176. Ignoring all financial
considerations,
would you rather spend the next five
years confined to the city of New York
or to the environs of Morro Bay, a
beautiful, isolated town on the
California coast?
177. What would you like to be doing
five
years from now? What do you think
you will be doing five years from now?
178. What important decision in your
professional
life have you based largely
upon your intuitive feelings? What
about in your personal life?
179. Would you like to be elected
president
of this country? Why? If so, would you
still choose to be president if it meant
that your sleep would always be very
fitful and disturbed, punctuated by
frequent nightmares?
180. If a crystal ball would tell you the
truth
about any one thing you wished to
know concerning yourself, life, the
future, or anything else, what would
you want to know?
181. If you were guaranteed honest
responses to any three questions, who
would you question and what would
you ask?
182. Which is more important: actual
experiences,
of the memories that remain
when the experiences are over?
183. If you were expelled from the
country
and had only limited financial
resources, where would you try to
rebuild your life?
184. How much are you affected by a
person's
physical appearance? How would
it change your life if something
happened
to make you much less attractive
than you are now?
185. Do you find anything disturbing
about
immortality? What age seems ideal to
you?
186. In love, is intensity or permanence
more important to you? How much do
you expect from someone who loves
you?
187. If you were offered $40,000 would
you
accept to continue your life without
any electronic device?
188. What kind of people do you like to
spend time with? What do such people
bring out in you that others do not?
What can people learn about you by
looking at your friends?
189. Should it be illegal to help a
terminally-
ill person to die? If someone is not
dying but has chronic pain, should the
person be allowed to commit suicide?
What if the person is in emotional
rather than physical pain?
190. Would you prefer to die a hero's
death, die a martyr to some great
cause, die in a natural catastrophe, or
die peacefully? Why is it so tempting
to have death catch us in our sleep?
191. How forgiving are you when your
friends let you down?
192. In the mid 1800s, had you been
able
to look into the future and see that the
automobile would cause 5 million
fatalities in the next century, how
would you have felt about this new
device? Is there scientific knowledge
that is best left undiscovered? If so,
what areas of research do you feel
should be restricted?
193. Do your comments and
suggestions
influence other people much? How
could you present your ideas so that
they would have more impact?
194. Would you risk your life for
someone
close to you out of feelings of obligation
or out of feelings of love? Would it
matter if you could refuse without
anyone ever knowing? What if the
person asked you not to risk your life?
195. How would you like to be
remembered
after you die? What would you like
said at your funeral? Whom would you
like to speak?
196. Would you like to have a child
much
brighter and more attractive than
yourself? What difficulties might
result? How much would it bother you
to have an ugly, stupid, or crippled
child?
197. If you saw someone cheating on a
test, what would you do? What if you
had signed an honor code?
198. How might the world be different if
you could actually change some
historical
event? How sure are you that
the long-term consequences would be
positive?
199. When you make a big sacrifice, do
you
tell people about it or keep it to
yourself?
What would you never willingly
sacrifice? Your life? Your health? Your
integrity? Your dreams?
200. Most people say if they found a
wallet
full of cash on the street they would

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