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Zan – Enlightened Seduction

Vol. 1 – The Way Of The Natural

“There is a subset of men that move around women with ease. These rare men

are those that have consciously learnt the ability to see women in their natural

state, see right through their make up and walls, their insecurities and their loss.

They see women as they really are. Women can sense immediately when they

are in the presence of a man that likes women, who thinks they are beautiful,

makes them feel lovely. He genuinely likes women, and therefore he is liked by

women. “

Women open themselves up to him willingly, because he understands the things

that women universally respond to. He is not like other men and women know

it.”

Who are these men? What qualities do they possess?

We call them “naturals”. A man who is comfortable in the land of women.

 Am I a true natural?

 Am I comfy around women?

 Do I flirt with women?

 Have I dated beautiful women?

 Have I had great relationships with wonderful women?

 Have I slept with a lot of women?

 Have I had three-somes or more-somes?

 Does that make me a natural?

I always say “I am not a pick-up artist.” “I am a lover of beauty – beauty in all

its forms. And that attitude will make you automatically more attractive to

women.”

Tactics and techniques might bring something, but what we teach is SO MUCH

DEEPER.

What interests me is the notion of creating chemistry and amplifying attraction.

The belief that you could seduce any woman in a room will get you far with

women and there is no harm in it. “I could but I won’t.”

It will open much more doors than it closes.

“I decided long time ago that any woman that meets me or is talking to me is

interested in me.” Very empowering reality.

Secret of naturals: They are not born with it

At one point in his life, tired of rejection, he decided to get that part of his life

handled. Tried and failed – retained the things that worked, discarded what did

not. Naturals are not born, they are made.

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Zan – Enlightened Seduction

Vol. 1 – The Way Of The Natural

What makes some people so attractive? Can it be broken down?

Asking a natural, most can’t explain to you what it is.

It is more than self-confidence Inner clarity, centeredness, purpose.

10 traits all natural seducers have

1. “They are all his girls.” He has immense compassion for them – sees their

faded dreams and he makes it his mission to impark beauty into her life

again. He makes her feel alive, and inspired, once again. Because women

deserve passion and he knows they are not getting it from the men they

are involved with. Natural seducer has compassion for all women. Most

girls are never really “single”. He knows that women love sex as well –

they just have to hide it somehow in society. If you think that “they are all

your girls” there is no “picking-her up” because she already is “picked up”.

2. Every natural seducer knows that the secret to his power over women lies

in the power they have over him. Against “I am the price”. The power of

showing a little vulnerability to women. Showing he is delighted by the

way they flow through life. He lets it be known that he is delighted by her.

“He needs her, but he is not needy.” He puts her on a pedestal, but it is

one of his own chosing.

3. He has a purpose in life that is not her. Does not mean that he does not

delight in her, but he is on an adventure through the jungle to see what

magic he can find, and he would love if she comes along, but if not, that is

okay. He might be sad, but he will go anyway. Mistake if the guy makes

her the adventure. “Something that allows them to escape their banal

existence”, that is what they want.

4. He realizes that honesty is the greatest aphrodisiac. He can not bear the

thought that a woman would ever feel she was manipulated by him. He

embraces his sexuality, presents it to her without presumption, and he is

delighted if she responds favourably, but if she does not he is okay. He

has a lot of respect for a woman opening up to him. But for flirting –

always let her guess if you are saying the truth or not. That’s how to

banter  .

5. He never kisses and tells – EVER. Feels no need to validate himself to

other men by bragging about his encounters with women. His encounters

with women are all about respect – because he is not interested in taking,

but in sharing something with her. “If she does not feel like a queen, he

does not feel like a king.” HE IS NEVER OUT TO GET LAID. Having said

that, if she tells other people, it is actually very good. He is not ashamed

of it. Out of respect for her and her reputation, he never kisses and tells.

How do you let her know you don’t kiss and tell? I tell her.

”A woman that trusts me enough to open her body and her emotions to

me that is a very profound thing. That is something that can never be

taken lightly.” Your goal should always be to leave her better than you

found her – and her sensing that she will open herself up to you, you

never before dreamt. The concept of LMR will completely go away. I make

no apologies for my desires as a man. I tell her I am not content with just

looking at her.

6. He never defends himself – EVER. Deflect it! If you are challenged, make

fun of her and the situation.

7. He never takes himself, her, or the situation too seriously. He even uses

self-deprecating humor at times.

8. He realizes the massive importance of body language. He studies it

carefully. 93% of communication is body language. Women are relying on

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Vol. 1 – The Way Of The Natural

their senses to make an image of who we are. E.g. if you are just that

they will allow themselves to be touched, while not allow it others. They

will allow liberties to certain men they would never allow to other men.

9. He knows that women are not attracted to men that are good looking –

they are attracted to men that are attractive. “hover factor”: women

within 30s of meeting guy – if she can picture him in a sexual position

hovering over her and on top of her, she will be receptive to him sexually

if everything works out that way.

10. To an enlightened seducer, his relationships never end. He is

connected to the women in his life – forever. All man who are naturals are

friends with women. They never say a bad word about him. How is that

possible? She will only feel cheated if she feels that you promised

something to her that you did not deliver. They have all added to your life

and to who you are and they will always be there – forever.

Often hear “I can’t believe I just told you that.” “I can’t believe I just slept with

you.” – Because she can sense that I will respect her in the morning and would

never take advantage of her.

Two ways you can approach a girl:

#1. self-confidence

#2. smug assumption: “Yeah, whatever, your loss. I am the price.”

Always do first, not second.

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Zan – Enlightened Seduction

Vol. 2 – The Way Of Men & Women

Society has changed for both sexes – pill invented – sexual liberty. But deep

down the feeling that something vital has been lost among the way.

Men seem to feel lost – marriage does not work anymore – men/women do not

get invested as much as once did. Men are confused and do not know how to

approach women. Often our traditional role of provider and protector have

changed. Men feel like they are gradually losing their utility to women.

What is left?

Society today makes it that few get a lot and some get none.

Women still need us to celebrate them. Women still love and need to be

seduced. Women are complicit in their own seduction. They want it more than

you do – every women wants to be part of a love story.

“Every women is complicit in her own seduction – and every man who

understands this is forever surrounded by beauty.”

Equality movement: Men and women shall be equal – YES! But problem thinking

they should become “the same!”. The goal was equality, the result was sameness

– there is the problem.

On the one hand we link up that sharing feelings is bad, so we act aloof, but that

makes us feel unhappy when we would really like to share our feelings. Keep the

interactions fun and light.

Used to be son growing up with dad and together try and fail – getting

experience and learning the trade from dad. Today less and less dads around. It

is a rare man today who spends time with his son. He is either not there at all or

too busy and distracted. The result is a generation of men largely raised by

women.

“Today we are surrounded by boys that are men created by women.”

This is the essence of the nice guy today.

That is why men feel lost – different than ever. Information is not passed on

from our dads to us – the way it has been for thousands of years.

All of us have unhealed wounds, but most do not recognize it – you have and are

taking steps to heal it.

Women knows what you are all about, right away.

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Zan – Enlightened Seduction

Vol. 2 – The Way Of Men & Women

5 boxes women put guys:

1. The guy is kinda creepy, I don’t like him at all

2. Not here, not there – just a guy

3. That guy is a nice guy, he would make a good friend for me

4. Long-term-potential – I really like him, let’s be nice around him

5. I would like to sleep with that guy

You are in one of these 5 boxes with every girl you know – and hard to get

moved from one to another – all women have the same rating system.

You want to be her friend, not her enemy. You knock on and she lets you in.

Henry David Thoreau:

“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”

 as true today, as back then

Alabaster Girl: image of the ideal girl; YOU WILL NEVER FIND HERE! It is a

search without end. A real woman could never live up to her. We compare every

girl to this image inside of us

“What you love her for in the beginning you despise her for later on.”

The answer we seek can never be found in a woman.

Don’t get angry at her for not being able to live up to that impossible standard

that you created.

The way of women

“transcending beauty” – something great about here transcending beauty; They

want to be delighted at and swept of their feet. They want to be enticed and

seduced. Women are missing one thing in their lives – romance they are

dreaming about.

Be her fantasy – let her feel free, innocent and young again.

A man can be all the things a woman says she wants, but is still unattainable, he

never makes empty promises – combined of the attractive things of the jerk and

the nice guy.

Every woman wants to be in a love story – that is what they want.

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