First principle
Learning to create and control your own state
So that when you go into a situation, you have a state that is powerful and fun and you feel totally confident that you are going to get the result.
You can control and direct your own state
You can control and direct the state of a woman you really want to experience
Create a conversational framework that allows you to direct the processes and the emotional states of the woman you want to seduce
Setup a frame work where we can do what ever we need to and it seems like normal conversation
You can be conversational and covert
You can be very blatant and directive
Both work
When you are blatant and powerful many women, not all, get really turned on, they want to be directed
Just because you might get a funny look doesn’t mean you can’t try something else, and get that to work
Attitude to wear
Everything you do is an experiment, take the pressure off and feel laid back and you’ll get laid lack in return, or in other words (get laid back)
In fact if you were to find yourself being totally convinced
Won’t it be great
As you find yourself reentering that state of total suggestibility
One of the skills that you need to learn to really master this material at a powerful level
Is the ability to back off if what you’re doing isn’t working, and take a different approach.
I have an intuition about you
“what’s that”
I have an intuition that you are very visual
You make pictures in your head very well
In fact you have a talent
Your talent is that you can look right at someone
And they think you’re listening
But you could be making movies in your mind of something you’d rather be doing
“oh my god that’s right, how did you know that?”
You motivate yourself STOP!
And think of something that really motivates you
“her pupils dilated”
Do you see it
It’s a big picture in front of your face isn’t it
And notice as you take the picture and pull it away and make it smaller
Doesn’t it seem less motivating?
“oh my god yes it does”
But then there’s like a blank spot that wants to be filled in
So notice what it’s like as an image of you and I laughing over a cup of coffee
Just sticks itself and locks itself right in there
Doesn’t it make it seem like something you want to do
“laughing” “My god I know you just shoved it in there, but it’s working anyway”
Have you ever
If I were to say to you
Weasel phrases
If one pattern doesn’t work, step back and change your approach until something works
If a woman laughs that is the best sign in the world
They are not laughing it off they are laughing it in
It’s the sign of unconscious recognition
Basic principle
Look for an opening
Start off with a strong response
You could try all the patterns in the world word for word
But if you aren’t watching the response it won’t work
Watch the response or you won’t get anywhere
If you use the phrase have you ever
Let them talk if they start talking
Because they will go into that state or give you the information you need to put them into the state you want them to
People are hypnosis machines
People are used to content and because of that they resist it
People are not used to having the direction and the process of their mind directed and controlled they’re not used to that
They don’t resist it
Direct the process of their mind so they are ready for any content that you want to give them
“I think you’ll find as you listen carefully, and become even more fascinated it allows you to go inside
and find all the reasons why what I’m saying is so important
to the point where you just find yourself riveted on every word
now let me tell you what I have to say to you
what is the difference between process and content?
content is verbalizing direct suggestions, typical conversation information, telling someone something like “I want to do something”
process is basically telling their mind how to go into a trance and how to respond to what you are about to tell them
if you are powerful enough with these skills you can be blatant as hell push the limit and what ever they throw my way I’ll duck and come right back at them
If you run into a brick wall and it’ll crumble right in front of you
Every decision is constantly being remade and every decision is state dependant
If you don’t like the decision change the state first
If someone is in a state of being disagreeable, get them out of that state
Never pit strength against strength, never push against resistance in any persuasion situation
Time distortion is perhaps the most powerful tool you can use, it’s unbelievable !
If you can time distort a woman the fight is over
Some women are going to take longer than others
There are varying degrees of suggestibility
Some people are more suggestible than others
Some people have more barriers than others
The best way to get somebody to do something is to have them hallucinate a future where they’ve already given you what you want and they’ve experienced tremendous pleasure doing so
Because you can’t resist what already happened, if it already happened it’s too late… to do anything but relax cause your about to get what you want, what you’ve been wanting, haven’t you
You really need to look at the person in front of you Ask yourself what do I want, and is this person worth the effort I’ll have to put into it
Dating is for women who you’re already sleeping with, dating is not the vehicle that you use to seduce a woman
Have you ever met someone and you just were overwhelmingly attracted
I had her point to where she sees that picture
“where do you see that?”
Notice what it’s like as for whatever mysterious reason a picture of me, just sneaks itself, inserts itself right there, doesn’t that feel great
However you can do it, create states of powerful emotional connection before moving on to sexual arousal
If they already like you and feel involved with you then what ever you want to get from them is much easier
Beware of sequence
Challenge is where the fun is, if it isn’t easy, at least make it fun
Isn’t it great to where you feel that sense of intrigue
If you’re not going to have fun in the process them what’s the point ?
This is a very sexy attitude
A guy who is not put off and who also is not hungry and is having fun in the process of courtship, a woman is attracted to that
A man who will playfully court her, without being pushy, a man who’s persistent at the same time is playful about it
Use and combine patterns together don’t just use one, flow hitting
Setup a conversational framework moving from pattern to pattern to pattern
Skill 1
The ability to observe and see what response you’re getting
Skill 2
The flexibility to change to something else if aren’t getting the response you want
Skill 3
Is the ability to be patient and learn from trial and error
If something isn’t working congratulate yourself you are about to find what does
No failures just learnings
The minute you see a negative response, back up and do something else
The more intelligent the woman is the better it works
Find an intelligent woman
Smarter is always better
Even if they have a hard edge to them, when you break through that they surrender completely
Woman are looking for someone to surrender to
The challenge is they need to know that that man is worthy of being surrendered to
That’s a terribly hard challenge
Because most men aren’t worthy, they truly aren’t
You will be worthy because you will know how to match every value that she holds dear with precision and no guess work
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