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32 Practical Tips For Increasing Your NLP Skills
…Quickly, Easily & Effectively
By Jamie Smart
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Table of Contents
Introduction ......................................................................... 4
About the author ............................................................... 4
What is NLP? ..................................................................... 4
Who are these tips for? ..................................................... 5
Acknowledgements ........................................................... 5
More tips… ........................................................................ 6
How to use this e-book ...................................................... 6
Getting Started Learning NLP ............................................... 8
1. Relax & learn ................................................................. 8
2. Learn what excites you most ......................................... 8
3. Do the exercises ............................................................ 9
4. Go for it ....................................................................... 10
5. Invest in yourself ........................................................ 11
Setting direction ................................................................ 12
6. What do you want? ...................................................... 12
7. How will you know you’ve got it? ................................ 12
8. Why – the motivation driver ........................................ 13
9. Hidden benefits ........................................................... 13
10. Step into the future ................................................... 14
11. Detach from outcome ................................................ 15
States & Anchoring ............................................................ 16
12. Change your physiology to change your state ............ 16
13. Transform a feeling ................................................... 17
14. Anchoring a state ...................................................... 17
Rapport .............................................................................. 19
15. Matching & mirroring ................................................. 19
16. Speaking rate ............................................................ 19
17. Vocal flexibility .......................................................... 20
18. How to test for rapport .............................................. 20
19. Cross-over ................................................................. 20
Persuasion Tactics ............................................................. 21
20. The yes set (pacing & leading) .................................. 21
21. Command tone down ................................................. 21
22. Tag questions ............................................................ 22
23. Pacing current reality ................................................ 22
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Sensory Acuity ................................................................... 23
24. Internal dialogue ....................................................... 23
25. Peripheral vision ....................................................... 23
26. Breathing rate ........................................................... 24
Effective Language ............................................................. 25
27. And not but ............................................................... 25
28. Quotes ....................................................................... 25
29. Use stories for camouflage ........................................ 26
Peace & Wellbeing ............................................................. 27
30. The power of sighs .................................................... 27
31. Surround yourself with love ....................................... 27
32. Start being now ......................................................... 28
Choosing NLP Training ....................................................... 29
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Introduction
About the author
finest teachers & materials, and applying what he’s learned. Jamie
is a Master Practitioner and is licensed by Richard Bandler & the
Society of NLP as a Trainer of Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP)
Jamie Smart is the Managing Director of Salad
Seminars Ltd, as well as the principal trainer. He
spent much of the nineties leading large, mission-
critical business projects and change programmes.
In the process, he found that individual change is
the key to collective change, and became fascinated
with helping people achieve the results they want.
This fascination led him to NLP, and he has spent
from 1996 to the present day learning from the
He is author of the 7-Day NLP Tip, an e-zine which goes to
thousands of people around the world each week (available from
Jamie lives in Leicestershire (UK) with his wife, daughters and cats.
When he isn’t helping other people get what they want, he likes
going for long walks in the woods, listening to music & reading.
What is NLP?
NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) is about how human beings
think, & how we communicate – two things we do almost every day.
It’s the most powerful approach I’ve found for knowing yourself,
getting what you want & connecting with other people. It has been
widely applied, with often astonishing results, in diverse fields
including business, coaching, psychology, sales & education.
By learning NLP you can:
Learn to control your own state of mind
Develop powerfully persuasive communication skills
Overcome obstacles in business & in your personal life
Help others to get the results they want
Have more of the experiences you want
Learn the tools of freedom
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The name NLP refers to (Neuro) the human nervous system,
including the brain and the five senses, (Linguistic) the verbal &
non-verbal languages with which we communicate and
(Programming) the ability to structure our neurological and
linguistic systems to achieve desired results.
NLP was developed starting in the early 1970s by Richard Bandler
and John Grinder, when they set out to model the work of geniuses
in the field of human communication and change. The term NLP is
used to describe both the approach to modelling that they used,
and the powerful models of communication and change they (&
others) created, and have continued to develop.
Who are these tips for?
These tips are for anyone who interacts with other people, & who
would like to spend more time having the experiences they want.
Whether you’re new to NLP, or have been learning it for some time,
I trust that you will find some new perspectives in these tips, &
something that can give you value right away.
Acknowledgements
I’ve adopted or adapted many of these tips from the great NLP
Trainers & other innovative thinkers & teachers who I’ve learned so
much from. Thanks, then, to anyone whose efforts have made their
way into this work. Specific thanks to…
Richard Bandler
John Grinder
Joseph Riggio
Eric Robbie
Jo Cooper
Peter Seal
Robert Dilts
Sid Jacobson
Jonathan Altfeld
Robert Anton Wilson
Ian Watson
Michael Neill
John La Valle
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