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by Michael Pilinski
www.HighStatusMale.com
Copyright © 2002-2009 Kipling Kat Publishing Company
All Rights Reserved
First Electronic Printing – September 2002
Updated & Revised: Ver 7.0 – January 2009
Published by the Kipling Kat Publishing Company West Seneca, NY 14224 U.S.A.
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Copyright © 2002 - 2009 Kipling Kat Publishing Company and Michael Pilinski.
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Dedicated to all the girls I've ever loved
(since first grade...)
Ellen, Jean, Mary Ellen, Lorene, Cindy, Mary,
Pamela, Susie, Joan, Shannon, Shari,
and Kimberly
Though you all probably think otherwise,
I'll never forget any of you.
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Table of Contents
Introduction ......................................................................... 7
Chap 1: Is Your Ego Roadkill Yet?
Stop Trying to Get Lucky, Get Informed ............................................. 12
Romantic Ratings ............................................................................... 15
Four Types of Attractiveness / Rejection Sensitivity ........................... 17
My Sad and Pathetic Story ................................................................. 19
Becoming Fearless is a Learned Skill ................................................ 23
The Female Mating Call ..................................................................... 25
Chap 2: Seduction: How the Game is Played
The Importance of Establishing Yourself as a Player ........................ 28
It's All Subconscious with Her ............................................................ 30
The Nice Guy Blues Explained .......................................................... 32
Nice Guys on Parade ......................................................................... 36
Instant Charisma and Classy Courage .............................................. 39
How Does Your Blood Smell? ............................................................ 41
Chap 3: The Male Dominance Scale Exposed
Are You a 2.5 or a 9.5? ...................................................................... 45
High Status Males vs. Low Status Males ........................................... 47
The Way Women Want Men to Act ................................................... 52
The Seven Attributes Women Love to See ........................................ 56
But None of this Works for You .......................................................... 62
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Chap 4: Comfortable Wimps, Tough Men
How Toxic Shame Keeps You in a Straitjacket .................................. 63
Your Secretly Shamed Affection Needs ............................................. 68
Anchors Aweigh ................................................................................. 75
The Zone of Discomfort ...................................................................... 80
Why You End Up Friends Instead of Lovers ...................................... 84
Chap 5: Essential Flirting
Seek Adventure, Not Outcome ........................................................... 92
Pretending You Don't Want it ............................................................. 101
The Rejection-Proof Process for First Contact ................................... 104
On Rejection Sensitivity ...................................................................... 113
Instant Rapport? ................................................................................. 115
Visuals, Auditories and Kinesthetics ................................................... 119
Romance is a Trance ......................................................................... 123
Five Minute First Contact Scenario, In Review ................................... 132
Chap 6: Closing the Sale
Escalate When the Time is Right ....................................................... 141
You Must Disclose Your Sexual Interest ............................................ 143
Be the First One to Reach Out and Touch Her .................................. 147
The Arrogance of an Assumptive Attitude ......................................... 152
The Deep Look .................................................................................. 156
Deliver a Knockout First Kiss ............................................................. 157
Putting it All Together ......................................................................... 164
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