Magic Touch Secrets Report.pdf

“" Magic Touch Secrets :

How To Create

Immediate, Irresistible

Attraction In

Stunningly Beautiful

Women With a Simple

Gesture." ”

By John E. Alanis

The King of Let ‘em Come to You

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In this report, I'm going to talk about the most important part of attraction--

actual, physical touch. Attraction cannot exist for long without some form of

touch... indeed, attraction leads to the most intimate of touching, which can

create even more attraction.

But, as you may have experienced, the wrong kind of touch applied at the wrong

time can kill any attraction. You have to know when to touch a woman, how to

touch her, and where to touch her, otherwise your touch (or the "busting of a

move," as some guys call it), will get you nothing but a slap in the face, not the

kind of touch you're looking for.

First off, understand this: women LIKE to be touched by men. They enjoy it.

They crave it. They don't like men who are afraid to touch them. They like men

who touch them the right way at the right time-- and that's what I'm going to

reveal to you in this report.

There's one other thing I want to mention before we really get started, and this

is one of the most powerful things you will ever learn about attraction: while

women touch men they are already attracted to, touching a woman the right way

can actually create attraction where there was none before. This "reverse

engineering" of attraction is something very few men understand-- but it can give

you an incredible leg up on any competition, AND can turn a "friend" into a hot

lover, or even a long term relationship. I'll talk about this more at the end of this

report, but I want you to be aware it from the get-go because it is one of the most

powerful attraction-creation secrets I've discovered.

Women and men experience attraction differently. As men, it doesn't take

much to turn us on-- we see a beautiful woman (or for some guys, any woman),

and we're attracted, we're ready to go. For us, attraction is an "on/off" switch,

and it doesn't take too much pressure to flip that switch. If a woman comes up to

us, hugs us, grabs our butt, and then grabs our crotch, we think to ourselves,

"hey, this is great... there should be more women like this in the world!"

But... if we were to do the same thing to a woman (unless we're already in an

intimate relationship with her), we're probably going to get a visit from the law.

Women don't experience attraction as we do... for them, it's much more like a

volume knob (that needs to be turned up s-lo-w-l-y with gentle tension) than a

switch. BUT, they eventually get to the same amount of excitement and arousal

as we do, just in a different way.

Women love anticipation, and women love teasing, especially when it comes to

touch. As guys, we just want to get down to business, and don't see the purpose

of anticipation. That's where most guys go wrong with touching women-- they

presume women respond the same way to touch that they do, make a sudden

"move" and then wonder why she responds badly. Think of it this way: if you

turn the volume knob on a stereo up too fast, you'll blow the speakers. But, if you

turn it up slowly, you can crank them pretty high-- and that's the way you should

think about touching a woman. Even better, if you turn up the volume, then turn

it down, then turn it back up a little higher, then down, then higher, etc., you'll

get to where the music is playing loud and everyone's happy. That's the BEST

way to think about touching a woman!

So, keeping all that in mind, how do you get started touching? The first thing to

keep in mind is to avoid anything sudden or threatening. If you meet a woman

for the first time, and then grab her butt (unless you are a real master of

seduction like my friend Chet R.), she's probably going to feel threatened, and

any initial attraction is going to be killed.

If I meet a woman for the very first time, I do well by shaking her hand, looking

her in the eye, smiling my "naughty boy smile," and then holding onto her hand

for longer than any "friend" would. This immediately lets her know that I'm a

guy who "understands attraction"-- most guys quickly let her hand go, and avoid

eye contact, I hold onto it much longer. What I'll often do is shift her hand, so

I'm holding her fingers in mine, just underneath the knuckle, while continuing to

smile my naughty boy smile, maintain eye contact, and let her know that yes, this

is indeed about attraction. Women LOVE this because it shows you're a

confident guy who's not afraid to let her know, via touch, that attraction is

present.

Every meeting after that I always greet her by giving her a big hug, just like she's

a long lost girlfriend (or a current one), then move my hands to her waist, just

above her hips. Most guys don't touch a woman like this-- it builds sexual

tension (a good thing with women), without overtly grabbing her butt, which is

threatening (until you've been intimate with her). Also, touching a woman with

both hands just above her waist brings back sexual memories, and at times,

memories of orgasms gone by. Why? Because when she's on top, most guys will

hold her by her waist, creating an "anchor" that can be "fired off," simply by

recreating the touch.

This is a big secret because, all of a sudden, she's thinking very sexual thoughts,

and experiencing very sexual feelings in your presence, even you though you're

not technically touching her in an overtly sexual place. Many times I will gently

and rhythmically squeeze her, heightening the feelings. She links the feelings to

you, and categorizes you as a man who creates attraction for her-- a good

category to be in.

When I sit down to talk to a woman for the first time (after I've shaken her hand

or hugged her), I want to begin to build anticipation via touch-- teasing touch.

Remember though, I want to turn up the volume gently, not flip a switch, so I

start with the most unobtrusive, most fleeting touch, and then ramp up from

there. That way there's no "sudden move" (like trying to french kiss her out of the

blue) that gets me classified as a loser. You never want to make a move, just turn

up the volume, so that each touch seems a natural extension of the previous one.

This takes advantage of an extremely powerful psychological principle called,

"commitment and consistency." Essentially what it says is, if you can get

someone to take a smaller action, you can get them to take a bigger action they

otherwise wouldn't have taken. For example, it's very difficult to get someone to

put a big, ugly sign in their yard saying they support "public safety." It is

however, very easy to get someone to put a tiny sticker in their window saying the

same thing-- where it gets interesting is when you go back to the people who

agreed to put sticker in their window and ask them to put up the yard sign. On

average 80% of them will say yes, who would have said "no way," had they not

made the commitment of putting up the sticker.

The "gap" can get even wider though-- if you get people to simply sign a petition

stating they support public safety, then ask them to put up the ugly yard sign,

80% of them will do it. Once people make a commitment, they tend to act

consistent with that commitment, no matter how small it is.

So... the same thing applies to women and touch. When you start with a tiny,

non-threatening touch, she has made a commitment to respond favorably to your

touch, and will now act consistent with her new set of beliefs (yes, commitment

and consistency is a way to change belief systems-- it's very powerful stuff, and

you can read more about it in Robert B. Cialdini's "Influence: The Psychology of

Persuasion," which you can get at Amazon for about $20.00), and respond

favorably to more intimate touching. You still have to "ramp it up," but you can

do so quickly and easily.

Commitment and consistency is the reason why "busting a move" usually fails

miserably-- there is no prior commitment to your touch... you're asking her to put

the yard sign up without signing the petition. Get her to "sign the petition," "put

up the window sticker," "put up a small sign," THEN put up the big sign. Turn up

the volume, don't flip the switch.

Now, you might be asking yourself, "isn't this a bit underhanded?" The answer

is NO-- this is how women WANT to be touched... they love being with a man

who truly knows how to build anticipation, who knows how to slowly turn her

on. Understanding this secret will get you known amongst the female world as a

man who "understands women," as opposed to the "move buster" who's known as

a loser.

Onward. The unobtrusive touch I like to start with is either a brief squeezing of

her shoulder, or a light finger tip touch on the wrist, that I quickly move away, in

a teasing manner. I wait until she's laughing to touch her for the first time so she

associates my touch with good feelings (this is called "anchoring" if you want the

technical term). Again, it's a brief, teasing touch-- I don't hold on.

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